As I reflect on this week, it hits me how important listening is to doing this work. This week, there were many examples where I and my colleagues needed to listen to what was being said, either from a co-worker or from a local community, to better understand their perspective on the situation. It amazes me how communication can often cause conflict or stress that would not be needed if each of us were to listen attentively, without judgment, and seek to understand.
Earlier this week, we held a focus group of GSC Directors and Parent Liaisons from various communities across the state. The one common factor across the sites was that they represented communities who have been effective in the GSC and GSPC work. For approximately four hours we "picked their brains" on various topics and asked for their opinion about the work they had done as well as how it could be improved.
What I appreciated about the conversation was that it was authentic. The participants shared their honest reflections in a respectful manner. Some feedback was reinforcing, some was disheartening, and all of it needed to be heard by not only ECIC but by the individuals in the group. The information gained will be used, along with other input and data, to help shape the next best moves for the Great Start Collaborative and Great Start Parent Coalition work.
Listening can be very difficult, especially when we may not want to hear the information. We are often thinking about our response instead of truly listening to what is being said and looking for what lies beneath the words spoken. This next week, take a moment to truly listen to those around you. It may be amazing what you learn.